How to Get (Almost) Anything You Want
By Noah St. John, Ph.D.

“Put a good person in a bad system, an d the system will win every time.”
— W. Edwards Deming

Just like your house and your body are made of Systems, so too your life and your business are made up of Systems. These Systems must be operating properly for you to enjoy more success with less effort.

The main problem? Most people have no idea what these Systems ARE, let alone how to fix them!

Let’s start with your People System. Why is your People System the most essential System of Support?

Because if your People System is not operating properly, nothing else matters. You simply won’t succeed to your full potential without installing your People System at its optimal level.

Why? Well, there are many reasons, but the bottom line is this: because people have everything you want! 

For example, if you want to make more money, and humans aren’t buying your stuff, I’m not exactly sure how you’re going to make more money. Because as far as we know, dolphins, monkeys, and gorillas are NOT carrying credit cards. (And my name is Noah, so I should know these things!)

Remember this: $20 bills tend to NOT walk down the street, knock on your door and say, “Hey, can I come in?”

If they do where you live, I want to live where you do!

See, on the planet called Earth, money comes attached to these strange things called HUMAN BEINGS – and we have to do that annoying thing called WORK in order to have money be transferred from their wallet to yours.

Therefore, if you want to experience more of this thing called money, you’d better install your People System at higher levels.

Keep this in mind: You ALREADY have a People System! For example, if you’re broke, working at a job you hate, and not living your dreams…

It means you have a faulty People System. It does NOT mean you don’t have a People System. It means you need to install a BETTER one.

The 5 A’s of Installing Your People System

There are five actions, that all happen to start with the letter A, that you must master to properly install your People System.

The 5 A’s of Your People System are:

1. Acknowledge

2. Ask

3. Accept

4. Accountability

5. Afform

The first A of your People System is Acknowledge. Why is that the first A of your People System?

Because human beings (you know, those strange creaturs with all the money?) are starving for attention, appreciation, recognition and acknowledgement.

Research has shown that people will do more for acknowledgement than for money. Who would you rather work for: someone who pays you a million dollars a year but demeans, embarrasses, and humiliates you; or someone who pays you a hundred thousand a year but who praises, acknowledges and appreciates you?

Sure, you might work for the first boss for a while; but you’d look at that paycheck every month and ask yourself, “Is this really worth it?”

We humans are strange creatures. We think we want money (and we do); but many people are shackled by “the golden handcuffs” – being stuck in high-paying, low-fulfilling jobs.

There are dozens of ways to Acknowledge the people in your life, at work and at home. What it really comes down to, though, is YOUR WILLINGNESS to do so.

That’s because every one of us is wearing an invisible sign that says, “Please make me feel important.”

The problem is, YOU have that sign too!

That’s why everyone is waiting for someone else to make them feel important first, before they’re willing to do it for others.

If you can be that one person in a million (and this number is pretty accurate) who Acknowledges other people FIRST, you are well on your way to optimally installing your People System.

Here’s a Simple 5-Minute Exercise to Acknowledge the People In Your Life…

1. Write a list of 10 people who have made a difference in your life.

These can be people who supported you, offered help or assistance, or who you wouldn’t be the same if not for them.

2. Next to their name, write the last time you thanked them for their contribution to your life.

Was it a week ago… a month… a year… more?

3. Write a heartfelt THANK YOU to them for their contribution to your life.

This can be a card or hand-written note. NOT an email. We get hundreds of emails a day. Even if yours is really nice, it won’t have the same effect as something they can hold in their hands.

4. Install a simple, effective System to keep in touch with the people who make a difference in your life.

If you don’t currently have one, here’s the one I use. It’s awesome!

Remember, you already have a People System. It may not look the way you want it yet…

But it doesn’t have to be hard and arduous to install a better one.

With thanks from Noah St. John

How to Get (Almost) Anything You Want
By Noah St. John, Ph.D.

“Put a good person in a bad system, an d the system will win every time.”
— W. Edwards Deming

Just like your house and your body are made of Systems, so too your life and your business are made up of Systems. These Systems must be operating properly for you to enjoy more success with less effort.

The main problem? Most people have no idea what these Systems ARE, let alone how to fix them!

Let’s start with your People System. Why is your People System the most essential System of Support?

Because if your People System is not operating properly, nothing else matters. You simply won’t succeed to your full potential without installing your People System at its optimal level.

Why? Well, there are many reasons, but the bottom line is this: because people have everything you want! 

For example, if you want to make more money, and humans aren’t buying your stuff, I’m not exactly sure how you’re going to make more money. Because as far as we know, dolphins, monkeys, and gorillas are NOT carrying credit cards. (And my name is Noah, so I should know these things!)

Remember this: $20 bills tend to NOT walk down the street, knock on your door and say, “Hey, can I come in?”

If they do where you live, I want to live where you do!

See, on the planet called Earth, money comes attached to these strange things called HUMAN BEINGS – and we have to do that annoying thing called WORK in order to have money be transferred from their wallet to yours.

Therefore, if you want to experience more of this thing called money, you’d better install your People System at higher levels.

Keep this in mind: You ALREADY have a People System! For example, if you’re broke, working at a job you hate, and not living your dreams…

It means you have a faulty People System. It does NOT mean you don’t have a People System. It means you need to install a BETTER one.

The 5 A’s of Installing Your People System

There are five actions, that all happen to start with the letter A, that you must master to properly install your People System.

The 5 A’s of Your People System are:

1. Acknowledge

2. Ask

3. Accept

4. Accountability

5. Afform

The first A of your People System is Acknowledge. Why is that the first A of your People System?

Because human beings (you know, those strange creaturs with all the money?) are starving for attention, appreciation, recognition and acknowledgement.

Research has shown that people will do more for acknowledgement than for money. Who would you rather work for: someone who pays you a million dollars a year but demeans, embarrasses, and humiliates you; or someone who pays you a hundred thousand a year but who praises, acknowledges and appreciates you?

Sure, you might work for the first boss for a while; but you’d look at that paycheck every month and ask yourself, “Is this really worth it?”

We humans are strange creatures. We think we want money (and we do); but many people are shackled by “the golden handcuffs” – being stuck in high-paying, low-fulfilling jobs.

There are dozens of ways to Acknowledge the people in your life, at work and at home. What it really comes down to, though, is YOUR WILLINGNESS to do so.

That’s because every one of us is wearing an invisible sign that says, “Please make me feel important.”

The problem is, YOU have that sign too!

That’s why everyone is waiting for someone else to make them feel important first, before they’re willing to do it for others.

If you can be that one person in a million (and this number is pretty accurate) who Acknowledges other people FIRST, you are well on your way to optimally installing your People System.

Here’s a Simple 5-Minute Exercise to Acknowledge the People In Your Life…

1. Write a list of 10 people who have made a difference in your life.

These can be people who supported you, offered help or assistance, or who you wouldn’t be the same if not for them.

2. Next to their name, write the last time you thanked them for their contribution to your life.

Was it a week ago… a month… a year… more?

3. Write a heartfelt THANK YOU to them for their contribution to your life.

This can be a card or hand-written note. NOT an email. We get hundreds of emails a day. Even if yours is really nice, it won’t have the same effect as something they can hold in their hands.

4. Install a simple, effective System to keep in touch with the people who make a difference in your life.

If you don’t currently have one, here’s the one I use. It’s awesome!

Remember, you already have a People System. It may not look the way you want it yet…

But it doesn’t have to be hard and arduous to install a better one.

Noah St. John www.successclinic.com

A Business Mentor Steve Little, came across this really outstanding video on TED (USA TV) and wanted to share it with you. In it, Michael Shermer, author of “Why People Believe Weird Things” and “The Mind and The Market” talks about the hard-wired brain habits that make us believe strange things.

It’s certain to enlighten and entertain!

Check it out:

To your Success!
Loran

Hiya,

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It can be tough out there!

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I’m sure you’re eager to hear about all of the bonuses that
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Warm Regards,

Loran Northey

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Hiya,

Have you seen that commercial on BBC1, UK where the prairie dog type animal keeps going Alan, Alan, Alan……..(mutter mutter)…ALAN! well, that’s enough to lift my spirits anytime by just thinking of it However, if that doesnt have quite the same effect on you then your mood will definately improve when you’ve read what my friend Alan has on offer below:

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  Too right it would! And I have a friend who can help
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  Alan has over 31 years of experience at creating deep
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  I am honored to invite you to participate in Alan’s exciting
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  Imagine having the key to rapidly eliminating anxiety,
  depression, and any negative feeling or behavior. And
  imagine having the ability to quickly and effortlessly mould
  yourself into the person that you have always wanted to be.
  Picture having an extraordinarily happy, rich and fulfilling
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  you will receive for participating in this event.

  First, as mentioned above, you will receive a FREE copy of
  Alan’s seven session “Relax In A Flash! – Advanced!” program
  on 2 CDs worth $39.77! This is his personal thank you for
  placing your order for at least one other program worth
  $39.77.

  Second, regardless of the size of your order, as an
  additional bonus gift to you, Alan has brought together an
  extraordinary package of dynamic and transformative content
  that will act as the key to transforming your life.

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  Here’s the deal …

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To Your Success!

Loran Northey

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To your Success!
Loran

“Would you like me to give you a formula for success? It’s quite simple, really. Double your rate of failure. You are thinking of failure as the enemy of success. But it isn’t at all. You can be discouraged by failure or you can learn from it, So go ahead and make mistakes. Make all you can. Because remember that?s where you will find success.”
- Thomas J. Watson

‘Pity the man who inherits a million and isn’t a millionaire.Here’s what would be pitiful,if your income grew and you didn’t.’ – Anon

“Success is a journey, not a destination.” Ben Sweetland

‘If you care at all, you’ll get some results. If you care enough, you’ll get incredible results’ -Anon

‘Unless you change how you are,you will always have what you’ve got.’-Anon

“Success is not permanent. The same is also true of failure.” Dell Crossword

“Seventy percent of success in life is showing up.” Woody Allen

“An Unfailing Success Plan: At each day?s end write down the six most important things to do tomorrow; number them in order of importance, and then do them.” Anonymous

“Act as though it is impossible to fail.” Anonymous

“Success comes before work only in the dictionary.” Anonymous

‘Make a goal, Get a coach, Take action, Take responsibility and do what you gotta do, to reach that goal’ – Loran Northey

Another quote from me

Life is like a waterfall of opportunity, its up to you whether you stand in it carrying a bucket or a sieve!

Simple, Proven ways to take strain and stress out of your life…..
Firstly, be kinder to yourself……

When we are under stress its important to recognize and deal with it. Here are some suggestions for you to deal with stress. As you begin to understand more about how stress affects you as an individual, you will come up with your own ideas on how to use these easy techniques best for yourselves ..

Get Active. When you are under pressure perhaps angry, agitated, nervous or upset, let some of the pressure out by getting some simple exercise or physical activity. Walk more, run (if poss.) play a team sport, get on the Wii, walk around the shops or get out in the garden, dance around your bedroom, these are just some of the activities you can do, I am sure you have many, many ideas of your own. Physical exercise will definitely release that pent up energy you can get when you’re stressed, so next time you feel under pressure – Move!. (Even if its just to the end of the garden to scream your head off!!)

Talk about it. ‘A trouble aired, is a trouble shared’. It helps to talk to someone about your worries and concerns. Another adage is ‘Two heads are better than one’ Maybe a friend, family member, teacher, healer or therapist, can help you see your problem in a different light and from a new perspective. You may feel that you would prefer to seek professional help of some kind, knowing when and who to ask for help may help you to avoid more serious problems later. Accept the situation and act on it.

Know your limits. There is a saying ‘Have the courage to change what you can and the accept what you cannot’. If a problem is beyond your control and cant be changed, at the moment,then accept it as it is, don’t fight the situation as you just give power and focus to the problem. Learn to accept it for what it is, for now, until you are able to change it. A helpful thing that you could say at the end of your thoughts or sentences is ‘for now’. By saying that you make your situation temporary and then easier to manage. For example.. ‘I dont have enough money, For Now’ .. is much less powerful and finite, than ‘I have no money’. Also saying ‘yet’ at the end is helpful, like ‘I have no money’ is much more restrictive and stuck, than ‘I have no money, yet’ which has movement and suggests that there will be enough money in the future.

You are a winner. The sheer fact that you were born means that you are a winner already, just by existing means that you made it through a path of extreme adversity and showed complete focus and determination, to get born. You are special!
Make time for yourself. Look after yourself and treat yourself as kindly as you would others. Get enough rest, if you cannot get 7 hours at night then take cat naps, power sleeps during the day. Lack of sleep is stressful to the mind and body and can make you irritable and tense. If stress is repeatedly keeping you from sleeping, take up meditation, practise yoga, listen to a relaxation mp3, book a session with a hypnotherapist or other complementary Practitioner.There are many ways to get help to relax and be stress free, please make sure you get the help you need.

Make time for fun. Pre book your diary, schedule in time for work and play. Play can be just as important to your well-being as work, you need a break from your daily routine, just to relax and have fun. Perhaps its just by having a bath away from all the daily madness for half an hour on a thursday eve, if it is then schedule it in. Plan your ‘me time’. By planning your time, you create things to look forward to and add value to your self worth and wellbeing.

Take action. A really good way to avoid getting bored, sad, perhaps feeling isolated and lonely is to go where the action is. Sitting alone can make you feel frustrated, stuck and disempowered. A better way possibly than feeling sorry for yourself is to get involved. Go to the library, local community centre, local online community sites/forums and offer your services to your local neighborhood or volunteer organisations, it can be as simple as pouring the teas at the local tea dance, to more skilled services that you can offer. Its proven that people that help others have a higher sense of well being than those who dont, so go out and help yourself by helping other people. By getting out and about and involved in the world around you, by interacting with people around you and helping others you’ll find that people will be more attracted to you and you’re on your way to making new friends and enjoying new activities. So take action now and go and see who you can join.

Get a Ticklist. Things can appear overwhelming when you are trying to take care of everything all at once,and as a result, you may not accomplish anything at all by perhaps procrastinating or creating some kind of diversary action. Instead, make a list of what tasks you have to do and do them one at a time, checking them off as they’re completed. Give priority to the most important ones and do those first. Maybe you would like to have a traffic light system so Green (must do’s) Amber (good to achieve) Red (bonus if achieved today) or maybe you will have the ABC method, where you have 3 xA’s, 3 x B’s, 3 x C’s- A’s are a MUST DO, B’s Great if achieved today and C’s -Bonus! The rule is that you focus only on the 3 must do’s and when they are achieved and ticked off, you then move down the list. It’s has been proven that by writing down your goals/tasks and then ticking them off when they’re achieved, (recognising your achievements regularly), actually improves your success rate.

Do you want to be right or happier all the time? Does it irritate you when others don’t do things your way? Are you angered by others behaviours and actions regularly? its a proven fact by all the worlds great leaders that collaboration or cooperation is better than confrontation or competition. Creating a win-win situation is ALWAYS a better solution to any challenge or situation. If being right is more important than being happy to you then I strongly suggest that you think about your values and what it is you actually want in life? Do you want to be right, even though that may mean you are left feeling resentful and have a strained relationship or would it be more beneficial to you to perhaps have an openness and see whatever the situation is from the others point of view to gain another perspective. Ask yourself what outcome do I want and then what outcome do they want? and then achieve it.

Wash away that stress. Natures stress reliever is a good ol’ cry and its an excellent and somewhat under used way to relieve anxiety and stress. Another great side effect to crying may be headache prevention and the avoidance of other dis-eases.

Build your chill zone. It’s not always possible for you to take off to a sunny beach or a health spa, but do you know a secret?…If you imagine that you are on a sunny beach or at a health spa, really imagine it in your mind-your body reacts in the same way, cool, eh! So take some time when you need to take a deep breathe and just imagine your chill zone, picture it, imagine the smells and the noises there, imagine feeling the sun on your face an the hearing the gentle lapping of the waves as they rest upon the shore and as you walk along the beach, you can feel the sand moving under your feet and with every step you feel calmer and more relaxed. Alternatively, You could always change your external scene by reading a good book, watching a comedy or listening to chill out music in a tranquil setting. There are always things that you can do, you just have to do them….
Step away from the medicine cabinet. Taking the odd headache pill is quite usual for alot of people, however, using medication to dull your senses or eradicate what you feel, does not alter the way that you create those feelings for yourself in the first place and at some point you’ll feel that way again. In fact, regular use of drugs, alcohol and smoking can be habit forming and in themselves cause stress than they get rid of. Medication should be taken only on the advice of your doctor and you have internal resources available to you every moment of every day that you can use that are just as effective and much healthier long term!

Find someone like an NLP Practitioner or a Hypnotherapist to show you how.

So be good to yourself, lighten up and learn to chill-it’ll change your life forever the moment you do

To your Success!

Loran